274 - Interview with Hannah Gaber for the Jew-ish Podcast
Oct 6, 2023
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In this podcast, the host interviews Hannah Gabbard from the Jew-ish podcast, discussing ask and guess cultures and the importance of asking questions with compassion. They also talk about the origins of the Stoic Coffee Break podcast, exploring stoicism and questioning religious upbringing, living with a father's double life, understanding communication profiles, the cultural value of questioning in Judaism and Mormonism, and embracing authenticity and gratitude.
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Quick takeaways
Open and direct communication is essential for navigating differences and understanding others.
Transitioning from a guess culture to an ask culture mindset requires personal growth and embracing discomfort.
Adopting an ask culture mentality improves communication, sets boundaries, and fosters meaningful connections.
Deep dives
Stoic Coffee Community and Mastermind Group
The speaker announces upcoming events in the Stoic Coffee community, including a newsletter sign-up, social media accounts, and the launch of a mastermind group for tech entrepreneurs. The mastermind group aims to apply Stoic principles to address big questions in the tech industry, and the speaker invites interested individuals to contact them for more information.
Interview with Hannah Gabbard
The speaker introduces an interview conducted with Hannah Gabbard, the host of a podcast called Jew-ish. Their discussion revolves around the difference between ask culture and guess culture, as well as their personal experiences and journeys. The conversation highlights the importance of open and direct communication, compassion, and kindness in navigating differences and understanding one another.
The Impact of Ask Culture vs. Guess Culture
The speaker reflects on how growing up in a guess culture, particularly within the Mormon church, impacted their ability to ask direct questions and be honest. They discuss the fear and pressure to conform, the difficulty in setting and communicating boundaries, and the journey towards becoming more of an asker and less of a people pleaser. They emphasize the importance of authenticity and personal growth in relationships.
The Benefits of Open Communication
The speaker shares their personal growth in relationships, highlighting how adopting an ask culture mentality has improved their ability to communicate effectively and set boundaries. They mention the importance of being honest, even when uncomfortable, and the need to accept different responses from others. The speaker recognizes the value of directness and clarity in fostering meaningful connections and personal well-being.
Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Growth
The speaker acknowledges the ongoing challenges and work involved in transitioning from a guess culture to an ask culture mindset. They affirm their commitment to personal growth and mention that their attraction to intelligent, strong-willed partners reinforces the need for open and honest communication. The speaker encourages embracing discomfort and conflict as opportunities for growth while recognizing that it takes time and effort to unlearn old patterns and fully embrace the benefits of an ask culture mindset.
This weeks episode is a reposting of an episode from Jew-ish. I was interviewed for the show by the host Hannah Gaber about what it's like growing up in guess culture and comparing that to her experience of growing up in an ask culture. Hannah is fun and smart and we had a great conversation. I hope you enjoy it.