Strictly Anonymous Confessions

983 - Paul has Been Domming Women for Their Pleasure for Years and Now he's Switching it Up in the Lifestyle

Dec 6, 2024
Paul shares his intriguing journey from being a dominant partner in BDSM to exploring a more versatile role as a switch. He discusses his early experiences with bondage, the importance of mutual pleasure, and how he's helped women achieve their first orgasms. Delving into his marriage with a bisexual wife and his evolving relationship with Kitty, Paul highlights the joy he finds in watching her with other partners. The conversation also touches on the stigma surrounding BDSM and the need for open communication to enhance intimacy.
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ANECDOTE

Early BDSM and Accident

  • Paul started tying up women in his early 20s to explore pleasure.
  • A motocross accident at 17 reduced his sensitivity, leading him to focus on his partners' pleasure.
INSIGHT

Sensory Deprivation

  • Sensory deprivation heightens other senses, including orgasm.
  • Paul discovered this through tying up and blindfolding women.
ANECDOTE

Advertising BDSM

  • In his 30s, Paul advertised on dating sites offering BDSM experiences.
  • He developed a "menu" of services, including simulating double penetration and airtight sensations.
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