IE256 Dr. Stan Tatkin: Relationship Mastery: How to Rewire Your Brain For Long-Lasting Love (The PACT Institute)

Jan 22, 2023

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Clinician, author, researcher, Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT) developer, and co-founder of the PACT Institute. Dr Stan Tatkin is an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT programs in the US and internationally. He is the author We Do, Wired for Love, Your Brain on Love, Relationship Rx, Wired for Dating, What Every Therapist Ought to Know, and co-author of Love and War in Intimate Relationships, and the upcoming, In Each Other’s Care.

His upcoming book, Relationship Repair will be out in April 2023

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00:00 - Intro

03:42 - Stan’s beginnings

05:49 - The Psycho-biological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) approach to navigating relationships

08:19 - Associating the feeling of safety with love

11:04 - Humans are living longer - should we question the longevity that’s demanded upon intimate relationships?

15:43 - How to establish a purpose and vision as a couple

19:50 - One partner wants kids and the other doesn’t - a deal breaker?

27:31 - Strategies to overcome stressful interactions: take time out or talk it through?