Nonviolent Communication - Marshall Rosenberg's NVC Training Marshall Rosenberg - Resolving Conflicts with Children #1
Nov 10, 2020
Dive into effective conflict resolution strategies with children, focusing on real-life scenarios from a school known for its challenges. Discover a three-step communication process that prioritizes understanding and autonomy. Learn about the dangers of manipulative language, emphasizing compassion over control. Explore the importance of consensual decision-making to foster respect in relationships. Through engaging anecdotes, the discussion contrasts harmful communication styles with empathetic approaches, promoting healthier interactions and connections.
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Reject Punishment and Guilt Tactics
- Avoid using fear, guilt, or shame to influence behavior in children.
- Respect a child's "no" and never use punishment as a strategy to resolve conflicts.
Practice Consensual Rule Setting
- Establish rules consensually with children instead of imposing them.
- Present consequences as logical outcomes, not punishments, to foster cooperation.
Avoid 'Should' and 'Must' Language
- Words like "should," "must," and "have to" invite conflict and resistance.
- Thinking you are right blocks effective communication and resolution.