Disruptors RANT: Dealing With Other People's Moods (Sh*t) [Business, mindset, entrepreneur, disruptors]
No one makes you do, say or feel anything. You own of all of that and you are responsible for these things. In this episode, rob covers 9 useful tips on how you can deal with people who may be negative or are draining on your life.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- You cant control how or where someone delivers feedback so accept the way they’ve done it and learn from it. Peoples ability to take feedback even when it’s not delivered very well is emotional, business and life mastery.
- Maybe you’re a bit too optimistic and positive and need your feet kept on the ground. Recognise that sometimes other people being like this can balance you and keep you grounded.
- Even if someone’s in a bad mood, they can’t affect how you feel unless you give them permission to. Their suck of energy is less than your give of energy. Don’t let anyone put your fire out.
- Sometimes when someone’s a real drain with huge emotional baggage and constantly plays the victim them get rid of them out of your life or minimize your time with them. But be aware that there’s a difference between someone being negative and a critic.
- Annoy the critics and sceptics with your enthusiasm and positivity.
- You can let so much stuff go, you cant control anyone so let it go.
- It can be a real challenge of your own mindset to deal positively with negative energy. So it’s good to see it as abit of a test of your ability to keep your energy high.
- Don’t get sucked into all of these debates and things that will drain your energy.
- Sometimes when people are down and are a bit of a drain of life then, if you care enough about them enough, you can try to help them. Some people have a lot of bad things going on in their lives so it could be them trying to reach out to you.
BEST MOMENTS
“Always look for the lesson in how people deliver feedback”
“Take away the way someone delivers their feedback.”
“Their mood can’t affect your mood without your permission.”
“The person with the best energy wins”
“Thank them then fu*k off”
[Business, mindset, entrepreneur, disruptors]
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ABOUT THE HOST
Rob Moore is an author of 9 business books, 5 UK bestsellers, holds 3 world records for public speaking, entrepreneur, property investor, and property educator. Author of the global bestseller “Life Leverage” Host of UK’s No.1 business podcast “Disruptors”
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