

How To Persuade Anyone To Do Anything You Want... Even If They Say NO! Part 2
Have you ever felt invisible—like no one’s listening, no matter how important or urgent your message is? Do you struggle to motivate others, win arguments, or get people to say “yes” without feeling manipulative or fake?
What if the reason people aren’t responding to you isn’t your message… but your state?
In this eye-opening session, Dr. David Snyder reveals that persuasion doesn’t start with clever words or tactics—it starts in your body. Your posture. Your breathing. Your energy. He shows you how to tap into your internal emotional states and literally shift your influence in real-time. You’ll discover how to anchor powerful feelings like confidence, joy, and charisma into your body so deeply that no one—not even you—can shut it off.
What would it feel like to walk into any room, any pitch, any conversation, and own it—not by force, but by attraction?
You’ll learn the secrets of emotional bonding, the hierarchy of values that drive all human behavior, and a deceptively simple checklist that creates instant rapport. And when you master these skills, you won’t just persuade others… you’ll reprogram your own mind for confidence, clarity, and success.
So ask yourself:
Are you tired of being ignored, overlooked, or shut down?
What if persuasion wasn’t something you did to others, but a state you evoked within yourself?
And what if that state could make people want to follow your lead?
This episode is more than a lesson—it’s a transformation. Don’t just listen. Experience it.
Quotes:
"The simple ability to enter and exit any emotional state at will is like having a bulletproof vest against their ammunition." - Dr. David Snyder
"If you can control your posture and breathing, you can interrupt any emotional state that you get thrown into randomly." - Dr. David Snyder
"Everything human beings do is in response to a feeling." - Dr. David Snyder
Actionable Takeaways:
- Control Your State, Control the Room - Practice the posture and breathing drill daily to anchor playful, confident emotions in your body. Try standing, breathing, and embodying your “most fun” moment for 2 minutes—and notice how hard it is to feel bad afterward.
- Physiology Drives Psychology - Your body influences your emotions more than your thoughts do. Shift your posture and breath before a sales call, meeting, or tough conversation to take control of your emotional state.
- Ask Deeper “Why” Questions Use the “Emotional Motivation Checklist” to discover your (or someone else's) deepest values. Ask: “What do I want?” → “What will that do for me?” → “What’s important about that?” Go 3 levels deep to unlock what really motivates behavior.
Episode Timeline:
0:00:25 - David Snyder begins discussing state control through posture and breathing
0:05:20 - Participants share initial experiences from the emotional state exercise
0:06:42 - David guides participants through a second iteration of the emotional state exercise
0:07:55 - Maintaining a positive emotional state through willpower
0:17:56 - Introduction to the emotional motivation checklist
0:21:31 - Detailed explanation of the emotional motivation process
0:25:00 - Participants complete the emotional motivation checklist
0:28:12 - Discussion of participants' experiences with the emotional motivation exercise
0:29:16 - Reflection on the potential of applying the emotional bonding technique
0:37:35 - Introduction to the "Secrets of Human Influence" course
0:47:35 - Detailed explanation of the "Weapons of Mass Instruction" storytelling course
0:57:22 - Introduction to the "Charisma and Conversion" presentation skills course
To learn more about Dr. David Snyder and everything about NLP, visit:
Website: https://www.nlppower.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DavidSnyderNLP
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