Psychology In Seattle Podcast Gaslighting vs Lying
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Dec 4, 2024 Dive into the intricate world of gaslighting as personal stories shed light on psychological manipulation in relationships. The conversation clarifies the crucial differences between gaslighting, lying, and simple misunderstandings, emphasizing the importance of language. Explore how selective memory plays a role in these dynamics and the emotional effects they have on individuals. The discussion also critiques the misuse of the term 'gaslighting' in modern discourse, urging listeners to recognize its true implications.
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Gaslighting Awareness Double-Edged Sword
- Increased discussion of gaslighting raises awareness about abuse.
- However, online simplification can create confusion and empower abusers.
Managing Memory Discrepancies
- Recognize that memory is not objective and distortions are common in conflicts.
- Avoid fixating on "you said/I didn't say" arguments; acknowledge memory's fallibility.
Gaslighting: Pattern and Intent
- Gaslighting is a pattern of abusive behavior, not isolated incidents.
- Unintentional gaslighting exists; abusers may genuinely believe their distortions.