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Flip Thinking Podcast

Episode 15 - I accomplish nothing

Dec 4, 2023
The podcast explores the challenges of having too many hobbies and a lack of focus. It delves into the struggle of starting new things but not being able to follow through. The correlation between success and friendships is discussed, as well as the illusion of external validation. The speakers reflect on their new direction in life and the power of love.
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Quick takeaways

  • The guest's belief that being successful is necessary for love and acceptance stems from her experience as a lonely child in school and drives her constant search for validation through new projects and hobbies.
  • The host challenges the guest to let go of the idea of being unlovable and instead embrace herself, love who she is, and prioritize enjoying life and cherishing loved ones without seeking external validation.

Deep dives

The Need for Success and Belonging

The podcast delves into the guest's deep-rooted belief that being successful is the key to being loved and accepted by others. She feels that not being successful makes her unlovable and causes her frustration and anger. This belief stems from her experience as a lonely child in school. Despite being loved by her husband and family, her self-image of being unlovable persists. This idea drives her to constantly start new hobbies but never finish them, hoping that success will bring her friends and validation.

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