Sad to Savage I Can Buy Myself Flowers... But I Would Rather Just Teach My BF The Habit Loop For It | EP. 25
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Feb 14, 2023 Communication is the heartbeat of any relationship, shared through personal anecdotes and humor. Discover how understanding love languages can deepen connections while voicing your needs effectively. The conversation dives into the impact of touch sensitivity and the role of boundaries in fostering healthy relationships. With reflections on past conflicts and quirks, the hosts emphasize the importance of aligning expectations to achieve emotional growth together. Get ready to nurture your love life with clear dialogue and shared understanding!
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Communicate and Teach
- Communicate your desires clearly to your partner.
- Teach them the habit loop: cue, routine, reward.
Flower Habit Loop
- Shelby taught her boyfriend to buy flowers weekly by associating grocery shopping with buying a $10 bouquet.
- Her positive reactions reinforced this habit.
Love Languages
- Understand your and your partner's love languages to show love effectively.
- Strategically act to make them feel loved based on their love language.