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From Middle School Charts To Research
- Harry Reis kept daily charts in middle school rating social interactions and later became a social psychologist studying relationships.
- His early insecurity about social standing led him to professionally study how relationships ebb and flow.
Encounter Groups Changed A Marriage
- Harry described marrying young from an insular community and later feeling distant after joining encounter groups.
- His new openness in groups created a gulf with his first wife that ultimately ended the marriage.
Understanding Is The Relationship Core
- Understanding is a central human need that underpins love, trust, and caring in close relationships.
- Compliments or affection ring hollow if they come from someone who misunderstands your true self.