Becoming Your Own Banker, Part 26: Top 7 Money Myths, Lies That Are Costing You Money

What if what you think about money turned out not to be true? Even worse, what if you're believing lies that are costing you money? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AuThVweoNlU Embark on a journey as we unravel the twisted web of money myths holding you back from true wealth. Inspired by Nelson Nash and flavored with insights from David Stearns, our discussion breaks down seven misconceptions that have snaked their way into your financial beliefs. From the debated need for dual incomes to the complex dance around tax deferral, we're here to challenge the status quo and guide your finances out of the fog and into the clear. Tune in as we continue our series through Nelson Nash's book, Becoming Your Own Banker, where we discuss increasing income, future taxes, banking, retirement plans, the stock market, paying cash, and life insurance needs analysis. And this is one place that the final points to consider might just be the most important part of the book. If you want to keep more money, have more future income, and live with more peace of mind along the way, join us to for down-to-earth real talk about money that you'll wish you already knew. Rethink Your ThinkingThe Top Money Myths1. You Need Two IncomesThe Economic Value of Homemaking It’s Better to Take the Tax DeferralMarginal Tax Brackets2. You Should Be the Customer of the BankCome Back for Part 2Book A Strategy Call Rethink Your Thinking If you want the same results you’ve been getting, you’ve got to keep doing what you’ve been doing. But if you want different results in life, you have to do something different. If the run-of-the-mill financial advice worked for people, we’d see proof of that. And yet many people who stay stuck in this way of thinking are only just keeping their heads above the water. For massive, powerful financial transformation, you have got to rethink your thinking. Stop clinging to what doesn’t work (or only marginally works) because it’s what you hear most often. Instead, look to the successful few and follow their cues.  To help, we’ve compiled a list of money myths people commonly believe, and how to rethink your thinking around these topics.  The Top Money Myths The dangerous thing about money myths is that they’re so prominent in our society. These are not just individual beliefs that are myths, but widely accepted cultural beliefs about money that are holding people back from true wealth. So let’s explore what these myths are, and how you can rethink your thinking about them. Below, you'll find the first three of seven money myths discussed in Becoming Your Own Banker. 1. You Need Two Incomes This is one of the trickier myths to combat because there are plenty of good reasons for families to have two incomes. Especially now, with high inflation, many families are feeling that pinch.  However, thanks to Parkinson’s Law, we know that what we THINK we need and what we actually need are not the same. This means that the more money people make, the more their spending rises to meet that income. Unless, of course, that person gets a handle on that spending and turns it into a habit of saving instead. Another reason the “two-income” mindset holds us back is because it’s a limited perspective. While more money is more money, viewing income as a product of labor means that you’re always stuck trading time and work for money. If, instead, you shift your understanding of money and income as something that can be scaled and is based on your value, then it doesn’t matter whether you have one or two incomes. You may have ten sources of income! And even that may give you more time in your week to spend time raising your household, making family memories, and more. [08:10] “There’s a different way to think about it, and it’s not going to be perfectly black and white. It’s not like there’s one right way to do things. But [Nelson] just encourages us to think about [how] there are two different sources ...