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A new vision of healthy masculinity | Davonte Green

Jun 30, 2025
Davonte Green, a youth advocate and leadership coach, redefines masculinity by challenging traditional stereotypes. He emphasizes that emotional intelligence and self-control are crucial for modern men. During the discussion, he highlights the importance of vulnerability and articulating feelings to foster personal growth. Davonte shares insights from his work in a men's prison, where participants confront their past actions, showcasing the significant consequences of manhood driven by aggression. Listeners are encouraged to embrace emotional awareness and community for deeper connections.
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ANECDOTE

Consequences of Impulsive Actions

  • Davonte Green shared how many men in prison had committed crimes in less than 60 seconds due to inability to pause.
  • These quick actions often stem from misconceptions about masculinity and result in years lost and broken communities.
ANECDOTE

Anger Fueled by Insecurity

  • Davonte recounts getting a felony assault charge after a two-hour drive to fight over feeling disrespected.
  • He realized it was insecurity, not disrespect, fueling his anger and bad decision.
ADVICE

Use PAUSE To Manage Emotions

  • Use the PAUSE strategy to manage emotions: Pay attention, Assess triggers, Understand feelings, Set boundaries, Empathize.
  • This approach helps avoid conflicts and make thoughtful decisions.
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