
21 Hats Podcast Do Business Owners Really Want Balance?
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Jan 13, 2026 Mel Gravely, the seasoned Chairman of Triversity Construction, joins Ted Wolf, CEO of GuideWise, and Lena McGuire, CEO of Spooka Kitchen and Bath, to explore the elusive concept of balance in entrepreneurship. They candidly discuss whether business owners genuinely desire work-life balance or if it’s merely an expectation. Mel challenges the notion that family time is preferred over work, while Lena emphasizes personal happiness as a priority. They highlight the cyclical nature of business demands and the necessity of redesigning life for mental and emotional health.
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The Temporary Crisis Trap
- Entrepreneurs often justify chronic overwork as temporary until the next milestone arrives.
- Josh Patrick warns that the 'temporary' phase frequently never ends and owners miss irreplaceable family time.
Designing Life Around Four Priorities
- Ted describes designing life around four priorities: mental, emotional, physical, and financial health.
- He rebuilt his schedule and leadership approach to preserve those areas and improve long-term wellbeing.
Behavior Reveals True Priorities
- Mel questions the assumption that all owners prefer family time over work and suggests many genuinely prefer their business.
- He argues behavior often reveals true priorities more than stated intentions.



