The podcast discusses the common resistance faced in self-healing journeys, exploring fears and reasons behind it. It also delves into navigating fear and resistance, embracing the challenge of healing, emotional healing, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. The importance of acceptance, patience, and overcoming resistance in the healing journey is highlighted.
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Resistance to change stems from fear of the unknown and doubts in healing techniques.
Authentic emotional expression is necessary for healing, despite societal discouragement and fear of reactions.
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Resisting Change and Healing
Change is uncomfortable, yet resisting it is a common behavior when it comes to healing. Individuals often resist change due to fear of the unknown and the discomfort that comes with stepping out of familiar routines. The fear of what life may look like after healing can also contribute to resistance, as individuals may feel a sense of identity tied to their pain. Additionally, resistance can stem from doubts about the efficacy of mind-body healing techniques, leading to a lack of belief in the process.
Feel Your Feelings Fully
Acknowledging and fully experiencing emotions is crucial for healing, yet it can be challenging for many individuals. Society often discourages deep emotional expression, leading to avoidance through distractions like technology or substance use. Avoiding emotions can perpetuate pain and other mind-body issues. Learning to feel emotions deeply and allowing them to move through you is essential for healing, even though it may initially feel overwhelming.
Expressing Emotions Towards Others
Expressing emotions authentically to others can be daunting, especially for those accustomed to people-pleasing or avoiding conflict. Fear of how others may react or the impact on relationships can hinder emotional expression. However, communicating feelings openly can facilitate emotional release and promote healthier relationships. Learning to express emotions towards others is a crucial step in processing and moving through emotional experiences.
Changing Relationship with Pain and Symptoms
Shifting the relationship with pain or symptoms is vital for healing, even though it may seem counterintuitive. Avoiding or resisting pain can perpetuate symptoms, while approaching and acknowledging pain can facilitate healing. Accepting the presence of pain without letting it control daily activities can expand one's window of tolerance for discomfort. Embracing discomfort and moving through it is essential for long-term recovery and overall well-being.
Resistance is so normal for us to experience as human beings. When we are healing from mind-body concerns we can often feel resistance to doing certain aspects of the work. In this episode we discuss areas we often resist changing and what we can do about it.
This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.
Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/
Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/
We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapy
Disclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk.
Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.
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