

679: Mom's Bigotry Makes Romantic Future Hard to See | Feedback Friday
Jun 3, 2022
Navigating love can be tricky when bigotry gets in the way. One listener grapples with a partner's mother who refuses to accept her due to race, leading to tough questions about their future. The hosts explore how to communicate effectively about sensitive family dynamics. They also dive into supporting colleagues from diverse backgrounds amid geopolitical tensions and address personal challenges like addiction and vulnerability. It's a blend of relationship challenges and insightful strategies for resilience.
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Addressing the Mother's Racism
- Talk to your boyfriend about how his mother's racism affects you and the relationship.
- Encourage him to consider what matters more: his mother's feelings or his relationship with you.
Easing into a Meeting
- Your boyfriend should ask his mother to meet you before making judgments.
- Suggest a low-stakes meeting, like having tea, to ease the tension.
Setting Boundaries
- Determine your boundaries regarding your partner's mother's non-acceptance.
- Consider if you can be happy in a relationship where his mother doesn't accept you.