Have you ever forgiven someone who hurt you, only to have resentful feelings begin to fester a short time later? How does that scenario change when it is your spouse who caused you pain? In this program, Chip explains why forgiveness is a powerful skill couples need to harness. Learn about the dangers of unresolved conflict in relationships and the freedom that comes when you genuinely say, “I forgive you.”

Introduction:

The foundation of a great family begins with a deep, intimate marriage.

Three skills for a great marriage:

Skill #1: FORGIVING
Skill #2: COMMUNICATION
Skill #3: RESOLVING CONFLICT

Forgiveness – What it’s not and what it is:

Forgiveness is NOT a quick fix or an excuse to be a “doormat” by repeatedly accepting hurtful behavior without addressing the root issues
Forgiveness IS a spiritual discipline that involves three distinct parts:

It’s a DECISION
It’s a PROCESS
It actually is ACCOMPLISHED

The parable of the unforgiving servant:

Matthew 18:21-35

Three-part method for forgiveness:

Act: Choose to forgive.
Process: Actively pray and bless the person with your words and actions.
Accomplished: The true test of forgiveness is when you can genuinely rejoice in the other person’s success and well-being.

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