Trevin Wax, general editor of The Gospel Project and author of the book, Rethink Your Self, discusses the common assumption of looking inward to create and define oneself. He explores the challenges of conflicting desires, loneliness, and the importance of community. Jesus provides an alternative with a 'look up' approach, surrendering to a higher authority and finding freedom in self-sacrifice. The podcast explores the transformative impact of Jesus' death and resurrection on our perspective, relationships, and desires.