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Relating to Self

Tolerating high uncertainty {with Bryan Kam}

Sep 26, 2023
54:03

In this episode of Relating to Self, I have a conversation with Bryan Kam.

Bryan is a philosopher and writer, exploring the history of ideas, amongst other things. He has a podcast called Clerestory, works for the British Library, and is an InterIntellect Fellow. You can also follow him on Twitter/X


Topics, resources, and useful links mentioned in the episode:

  • Relating to Self, the mundane, and identity
  • The role of the observer and the inner voices
  • Meditation and the concentration states called "Jhanas"
  • The influence of meditation on Bryan's relating to self
  • Noting practices
  • The breaking down of the Ego
  • "Faking it" and authenticity
  • Improv, performance and responsiveness
  • Communication as collaboration
  • Aliveness and playful states
  • The importance of compassion (for the self)
  • What happens when you stub your toe
  • The meaning of "spirituality"
  • Compassionate practices
  • What about free will?
  • Changing perspectives
  • Internal Family Systems and Bryan's Muse
  • On inspiration and creation
  • On coherence, multitudes, and cognitive dissonance
  • The ability to tolerate high uncertainty
  • Hume and the stable self
  • The enjoyment of not knowing and the beginner's mindset


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