230: How to Small Talk with Big Results | Feedback Friday
Jul 26, 2019
Discover how to turn dreaded small talk into meaningful connections with a simple formula: Facts, Emotions, Why. Learn to tackle communication hurdles, like those overly long voice messages, and make the most of your moments of free time for personal growth. The hosts also delve into navigating workplace negotiations, sharing tips on how to advocate for your worth. Plus, hear insights on recognizing toxic relationships and managing medical bills, empowering listeners to take control of their lives!
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volunteer_activism ADVICE
Avoid Voice Messages
Avoid sending long voice messages.
They are inefficient and disrespectful of the recipient's time.
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Dictate Responsibly
If you must dictate messages, ensure accuracy and clarity.
Proofread before sending to avoid burdening the recipient.
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Set Communication Boundaries
Set clear boundaries about communication preferences.
Don't tolerate inefficient communication methods.
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People rarely admit to enjoying small talk, but that's because so few of us are actually very good at it. Luckily, FEW is also a convenient-to-remember acronym for Facts, Emotions, Why -- a foolproof formula for leading small talk that can yield big results. Find out how in this Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
When your friend repeatedly sends five-minute voice messages that a 10-second text would convey, how do you drive home the point that ain't nobody got time for that?
Congrats on quitting social media! But now what do you do with your spare two- to five-minute intervals you used to spend tweeting or reading Facebook? Glad you asked!
How can somebody in a quaint but underdeveloped town find improv and behavioral classes to improve their skills and up their game on personal and professional fronts?
Is it opportunistic to leverage interest other companies have shown in recruiting you when it's time to negotiate for a raise -- even when you planned to stick around anyway?
Even though you consider yourself social and find your spouse's friends a delight, they seem to think you don't like them. How can you dispel their concerns and let your real feelings shine through?
You've broken up with your significant other of four years for once again lying to you, but you feel guilty because they've been in therapy for the past six months trying to be better. What next?
Your usually calm and cool significant other will be taking the bar exam soon, and a lot of things are up in the air until it's passed. How can you express support without getting in the way?
When you've lost trust in your business partner, what steps can you take to ensure you're not on the hook for 100 percent of the company's debt if things go even further south?
Life Pro Tip: Drowning in debt from that unexpected hospital visit? Medical billing departments will often accept a fraction of what you "owe."
A quick shoutout to recently married listener and local Michael Moore!
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