[Q&A] Let's talk Same Sex Attraction, grounds for Divorce, & more | The Basement w- Tim Ross
Oct 2, 2023
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Topics discussed in this podcast include same-sex attraction, grounds for divorce, taking ownership, seeking God's guidance, not settling in life, triggering growth, learning from mistakes, struggling in a distant relationship, lacking relational nutrients, transitioning to a new platform, controversial Easter church service, playful banter about starting an OnlyFans account, allowing healing and processing, production day and hair woes, stepping into different situations, and moving to a new platform.
Attraction is not a sin, but there are grounds for divorce when one spouse abandons their vows and disrespects the marriage.
Individuals with autism can combat uncertainty by seeking guidance from trusted individuals and writing down their thoughts to strengthen their relationship with God.
Transitioning from a failed romantic relationship to a genuine friendship requires prayerful consideration of boundaries and seeking God's guidance for healing.
Both parties in a struggling marriage should take ownership of their actions, seek therapy and counseling, and draw close to God for individual growth and relationship rebuilding.
Deep dives
Struggling with Same-Sex Attraction and the Impact on Marriage
A person shares that their husband has disclosed their same-sex attraction, resulting in a disconnect in their marriage. The person acknowledges their own feelings of attraction for someone else, which has caused further strain. They have sought counseling and are committed to their faith, but their husband shows unwillingness to work on himself or the marriage. Tim emphasizes that attraction is not a sin and offers empathy and support, but also recognizes grounds for divorce when one spouse abandons their vows and disrespects the marriage.
Dealing with Doubt in Discerning the Voice of God
A person with autism expresses doubt in their ability to discern God's voice and seeks advice on combating uncertainty. Tim suggests identifying trusted individuals to share potential messages from God for clarification and support. The person is encouraged to write down their thoughts and seek guidance from others to strengthen their relationship with God and navigate genuine friendship.
Navigating Friendship After a Failed Relationship
A person discusses the challenges of transitioning from a failed romantic relationship to a genuine friendship. Tim advises prayerful consideration of trusted individuals who can help discern and navigate boundaries with the ex-partner. The main focus is on healing and seeking God's guidance in building a healthier relationship moving forward.
Recovering from an Affair and Struggling with Distant Husband
A person shares their experience of their husband becoming distant due to his new job and his disclosure of struggling with same-sex attraction. They confess their own emotional affair and express a desire for change. Tim reassures them of God's love and advises therapy, counseling, and continuing to draw close to God. He emphasizes that both parties need to take ownership of their actions and work on their individual growth and the rebuilding of their relationship.
The Importance of Unlearning and Growing
It's not uncommon for new believers to feel uncomfortable or fake when worshiping in a different style from their previous religious practices. This discomfort is a natural part of unlearning old ways of worship and embracing a new spiritual experience.
Communion and the Gift of Vulnerability
Taking communion should not be seen as a test of worthiness or an opportunity for condemnation. Instead, it is an invitation to examine our hearts and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any areas where we need to confess and repent. Communion is a beautiful reminder of Jesus' sacrifice and an opportunity for us to experience His grace and forgiveness.
The Pressure to Save Others
The pressure to save others immediately after becoming a believer can be overwhelming. However, it's important to remember that everyone's journey is unique. Focus on building a strong relationship with God, unlearning old ways, and growing in your faith. Trust that He will guide you in sharing your faith with others in His perfect timing.
The Power of Vulnerability in Marriage
Juliet Ross is starting a show called 'Dearly Beloved' where she will help couples walk through their pain points and build a stronger bond. This show aims to guide couples through their struggles and provide them with the tools to communicate and grow together.
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