The Bulletproof Musician How to Keep Anxiety From Spiraling, on Stage and Off
As a kid, I had a habit of scanning the audience to see if I could catch a glimpse of my mom's reactions to my performance.
Generally, she'd be making a frowny sort of face, which didn't feel great then, but I now understand was probably more a look of concern, rather than disapproval.
I don't know why I did that, because it didn't help. And how freaky must that have been for the people in the audience? Especially in the vicinity of my mom? Like, what the heck is this kid looking at? Wait...is he looking at me?
Anyhow, I mention this because I found a study that reminded me of this old habit. Essentially, a team of researchers found that high and low-anxious folks tend to focus on very different things during a stressful task, and that this difference in attention was associated with either a milder or more severe stress response.
With college auditions coming up in the next couple months, this seemed like a particularly relevant tip that could come in pretty handy, whether during the playing bits or interview bits.
Get all the nerdy details and this week’s practice hack right here:
How to Keep Anxiety From Spiraling, on Stage and Off
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