After seeing a TED Talk by Becky Kennedy, I realized that the #1 relationship strategy is the skill of REPAIR.
When you can master the skill of repair and realize that Christ is the ultimate repairer, then many of the challenges that attack at your identity can be healed.
Link to TED Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHpPtdk9rco&t=462s&ab_channel=TED
Link to Inherent Identity Family, where you can learn the skills to repair and restore who you really are - https://courses.inherentidentityfamily.com/success-path/order/