227: How to Communicate with Stinkers and Deadbeats | Feedback Friday
Jul 19, 2019
This week, the hosts tackle the drama of dealing with a stinky coworker and a deadbeat roommate trying to move in an online love interest. They offer clever strategies for setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care in these tricky situations. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on personal happiness and the importance of defining success on their own terms. From navigating family dynamics to negotiating raises, each topic is infused with humor and practical advice, making for a lively and engaging discussion.
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Dealing with a Negative and Smelly Coworker
Address the coworker's negativity and smell separately to avoid conflict.
Start by mentioning the smell, suggesting a potential allergy, and move away.
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Roommate and Online Girlfriend Moving In
Raise the rent to market value if your roommate's parents are paying and they've become unemployed.
Protect yourself legally with a written and signed agreement if allowing an online stranger to move in.
insights INSIGHT
Motivation and Fear of Failure
Lack of motivation might stem from fear of failure rather than true contentment.
Many avoid pushing themselves for fear of not liking what they discover about their potential.
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When you've got coworkers who literally stink enough to make your olfactory system protest with tears of sadness and deadbeat roommates who won't pay rent and try to convince you to let their online romantic interests move into your very real space, you need to listen to this Feedback Friday!
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You try to be positive, but when your longtime coworker is negative, pessimistic, petty, and literally stinky, how obligated are you to put up with it?
You try to be positive, but when your longtime roommate is a deadbeat trying to move their online romantic interest in, how obligated are you to put up with it?
You're an effortless jack of all trades, but a master of none. Should you be more motivated to excel, or just grateful for what you have and enjoy life?
How do you get your extended family to understand that you and your spouse's busy entrepreneurial lifestyle makes free time a valuable resource?
As a freelancer, how do you manage (mentally and financially) the slow growth periods of the year?
You literally have OCD and can't stand being touched by strangers. How do you handle the would-be huggers and handshakers you meet without being rude?
As a young worker in a relatively low-paying position, how do you request a raise if one isn't given or negotiate a slightly higher one if offered?
Thanks to DNA testing, you've discovered your mother's been lying to you about the identity of your father for 40 years. How do you cope with this bombshell?
Life Pro Tip: Before giving a previous job as reference, have a friend pretending to be a potential employer call them asking about you — this way you avoid derailing your job hunt.
A quick shoutout to 11-year-old listener Ruby Johnson!
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