206: Increasing your Emotional Intelligence with Dr. JP Pawliw-Fry, New York Times Bestselling Author and Co-founder of the Institute for Health and Human Potential
Aug 26, 2020
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Dr. JP Pawliw-Fry shares insights on managing emotions and increasing emotional intelligence in high-pressure situations. He highlights the importance of addressing the 'last 8%' in conversations and decisions, promoting self-awareness, and prioritizing movement for brain health. The podcast offers tips for leaders and individuals to navigate challenges and foster personal growth.
Building self-awareness is key to managing emotions in high pressure situations.
Movement is essential for brain health and modeling emotional intelligence for others.
Embrace imperfection, prioritize learning, and view obstacles as opportunities for self-transformation.
Deep dives
Importance of Being an Aggressive Learner for Wellness Practitioners
For wellness and well-being practitioners, the key takeaway is to be an aggressive learner. In a rapidly changing world, the ability to adapt and learn quickly is essential. High performers extract three to five times more information from learning opportunities, emphasizing the need to continuously seek knowledge and adapt to new information and challenges.
Embracing Imperfection and Self-Reflection
An important message is to embrace imperfection and engage in self-reflection. As high performers, it's crucial to recognize that perfection is not required. Instead, focus on extracting valuable insights and learning from every experience, acknowledging that learning and growth come from being open to imperfection.
Encouraging Self-Trust and Boundaries in Parenting
In the realm of parenting, the emphasis is on self-trust and setting boundaries. Parents are encouraged to trust the process, model self-respect and boundaries, and maintain consistency in upholding the values they want to instill in their children. By demonstrating self-respect and enforcing boundaries, parents can guide their children in developing healthy boundaries and self-respect.
Resilience through Movement and Brain Health
Prioritizing movement for brain health is crucial for enhancing resilience and managing emotions. Engaging in moderate physical activity, such as a 15 to 20-minute walk, has significant neurobiological benefits, including stress resilience, enhanced pleasure in the moment, and increased trust. Incorporating movement into daily routines can improve mental well-being and enable individuals to navigate challenges more effectively.
Transforming Obstacles into Learning Opportunities
Viewing obstacles as learning opportunities and embracing the journey of self-transformation is key. Each challenge, such as last 8% moments, presents a chance to evolve, develop emotional intelligence, and overcome barriers to personal growth. By approaching difficulties with a mindset of growth and a commitment to continual learning, individuals can navigate life's challenges with resilience and adaptability.
If showing up as your best self gets increasingly difficult with added stress and anxiety, it's no surprise that the coronavirus pandemic is putting our emotional intelligence to the test. Today’s guest, Dr. JP Pawliw-Fry, best-selling author and co-founder of the Institute for Health and Human Potential, has a plan to help you manage your emotions, stay focused, and navigate this new world.
Dr. Pawliw-Fry, a premier expert in managing emotions during high pressure situations, has worked with NFL, NBA, and Olympic athletes as well as Fortune 500 giants like IBM, Goldman Sachs, and BMW to name a few. He is an advisor to the US ARMY and NAVY as well as a professor at the Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University and host of the podcast Last 8% Morning.
In this episode, Dr. Pawliw-Fry explains why people often avoid or make a mess of the last 8% of discussions and decisions and the importance of building self awareness to know your triggers. He discusses how organizations can promote the building of these critical skills and offers a few tips for leaders in high pressure situations.
Dr. Pawliw-Fry breaks down how important movement is for the brain and how leaders and especially parents can model self awareness and emotional intelligence to others. Finally, he leaves us with a tangible tip to start navigating our own last 8% situations.