Vulgar History: Regency Era Regency Era Cottagecore Lesbians: The Ladies of Llangollen
Nov 26, 2025
In this discussion, history podcaster Katie Charlwood dives into the lives of the Ladies of Llangollen, Eleanor Butler and Sarah Ponsonby, two Regency-era Irish women who pursued their domestic dream in Wales. They escaped from oppressive circumstances, defying societal norms to create a cottagecore haven. Katie shares their journey, from initial tensions and daring flights to becoming celebrated figures, forming a unique feminist legacy and serving as queer role models, all while navigating their public presentation and elaborate gardening at Plas Newydd.
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Their Dramatic Young Escape
- Eleanor Butler and Sarah Ponsonby met when Eleanor tutored 14-year-old Sarah and later developed a lifelong bond.
- They ran away together twice from Ireland to avoid abusive guardians and to be together as adults.
Hide In A Cupboard Trick
- In April 1779 Eleanor secretly climbed into Woodstock and hid in a cupboard while Mary Carol smuggled food.
- The hiding worked for days until a messenger revealed her presence and families negotiated exile instead of punishment.
They Became A Literary Destination
- Settling at Plas Newydd in North Wales, they cultivated a Gothic cottagecore aesthetic and became a celebrated destination.
- Poets and celebrities visited, reinforcing their fame and social acceptance.
