Lucinda Rosenfeld, author of five novels, joins Deborah Treisman to discuss 'Returns' by Annie Ernaux. They explore the difference between auto-fiction and memoir, the mother-daughter relationship portrayed in the story, and the themes of returning and loneliness. The chapter also highlights Annie Ernaux's ability to capture ethnological details.
The story explores the intense dynamic between a mother and daughter, showcasing themes of guilt, longing, and resentment.
The passage of time and the decline of relationships are prominent themes in the story, explored through the mother's aging and the daughter's abandonment of her hometown.
Deep dives
The Complex Mother-Daughter Relationship
The story explores the intense and complicated dynamic between a mother and daughter. The daughter visits her mother in their hometown, and their interactions reveal a mixture of guilt, longing, and resentment. The mother is desperate for her daughter's presence, while the daughter feels suffocated by the claustrophobic relationship. The story delves into the power dynamics, social class, and the passage of time that shape their interactions.
The Theme of Time and Aging
Throughout the story, the theme of time and aging is prominently featured. The mother is portrayed as growing older and facing the solitude and emptiness of her life. As the daughter visits, the mother tries to slow down time, cherishing every moment, while the daughter is in a rush to leave, feeling the weight of her own life and responsibilities. The passage of time is seen through the mother's declining health and the daughter's abandonment of her hometown.
The Symbolism of Food and Giving
Food plays a significant role in the story, symbolizing giving and control. The mother prepares a meal for her daughter as a way to show love and care. However, their meal together is consumed in silence, reflecting the underlying tension and unspoken emotions. The food also represents the mother's desire to give to her daughter, but it also highlights the daughter's neglect and the inevitable decay of their relationship.
The Autobiographical Elements
The story draws from the author's own life, featuring autobiographical elements. The mother-daughter relationship mirrors Arnott's own experiences, including the guilt of leaving her hometown, the social class divide, and the challenges of writing about her mother. The story reflects Arnott's exploration of everyday life, the complexities of relationships, and the themes of shame and desire.
Lucinda Rosenfeld joins Deborah Treisman to read and discuss “Returns,” by Annie Ernaux, translated from the French by Deborah Treisman, which was published in The New Yorkerin 20233. Rosenfeld is the author of five novels, including “I’m So Happy for You” and “Class.”