Focus on Parenting Podcast

When Will it Be Up to Me?

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Sep 16, 2025
As teens yearn for independence, parents often face pushback and boundary challenges. John shares calm responses to teenage outbursts, while Danny delves into why adolescents assert their opinions. Dr. Ken Wilgus discusses the core struggle between control and growth, highlighting how parents can help teens practice decision-making. Conversations take center stage as a way to guide young minds toward adulthood. Tune in for insightful tips and relatable stories on navigating this pivotal stage of parenting.
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ANECDOTE

Calmly Lean Into Teen Pushback

  • John recalled a tense moment when his 17-year-old son gave him and his wife a piece of his mind.
  • John leaned in, stayed calm, and turned the moment into a constructive conversation.
INSIGHT

Teen Exploration Fuels Pushback

  • Danny explains teens naturally test boundaries as they explore new freedoms and form opinions.
  • That exploration often brings pushback on rules like phones, movies, and curfew.
ADVICE

Clarify Negotiable Versus Nonnegotiable Rules

  • Make clear which household rules are negotiable and which are non-negotiable.
  • Let teens negotiate on negotiable rules within a foundation of respect.
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