Bawdy Storytelling Episode 281: 'Jack and Jill-Off' (Carol Queen)
Have you ever wanted to engage in a little friendly social masturbation? Legendary Author and Sexologist Carol Queen takes us on a freestyle journey back to the 80's, where she details her own fear of sex, and how she found true love. In the early days of the AIDS Epidemic, lack of medical answers lead to a generalized Coitophobia… could intercourse actually kill you? Soon the San Francisco Jacks come up with a creative way to release sexual energy, but they only allow gay men. Solution: Time for a Jill-Off, too - but be careful where you set down your hat. And Dixie is going On Tour, finally - Get Ready to Get Bawdy, y'all!
Song: 'W.Y.D.O.T.D. Pt 1' (Jefferson Bergey)
Masturbation Club l Sex Party | Institute of Advanced Sexuality l Doctorate of Sexology l Healing l Gay Male l Tuition l Dyke-Identified | Masturbation l Swinger l AIDS Epidemic l Bend Over Boyfriend l Pegging l Dirty Limerick l Poetry l Penetration I Sex Education l Submissive l Piss Play l Circus l Ringmaster l Sexually Transmitted l Visual Stimulation l Multiple Orgasms l Rental l Lesbian l Peg The Patriarchy l Condom l Bisexual l Contagion l Arousal | Rules l Voyeurism l Masturbate-A-Thon l Consent l Human Sexuality l
About our Storyteller:
Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist, and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen is a two time Grand Marshal of San Francisco LGBTQ Pride. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture. She has written a sex tutorial, Exhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot, as well as erotica, such as the novel The Leather Daddy and the Femme. Queen has produced adult movies, events, workshops and lectures. Queen was featured as an instructor and star in both installments of the Bend Over Boyfriend series about female-to-male anal sex, or pegging. She has also served as editor for compilations and anthologies, and is a sex-positive sex educator who speaks on stages around the world.
Episode links:
NOCD.com : OCD is more than what you see on TV and in the movies. Imagine having unwanted thoughts about your sexuality stuck in your head all day no matter how hard you try to make them go away. Relationship OCD is an often overlooked subtypes of OCD that come with unrelenting intrusive images, thoughts and urges about your partner, loved one, or sexuality.
If you think you may be struggling with Relationship OCD, there's hope. NOCD offers effective, affordable, and convenient OCD therapy. NOCD therapists are trained in Exposure Response Prevention therapy, the gold standard treatment for OCD.
With NOCD, you can do virtual, live face-to-face video sessions with one of their licensed, specialty-trained therapists. It's affordable and they accept most major insurance plans.
Breaking the OCD cycle takes effective treatment.To get started, go to https://www.NOCD.com/ to book a free 15-minute call.
WORKSHOP:
This Sunday, December 3rd: 'How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling' is happening live and in-person. It's an all day workshop in San Francisco, and there's just one spot left…cause I've been saving it for YOU.
Do you tend to ramble a bit? Got ADHD, or are you Neurodivergent? Forget where you were going with that story? Wonder what your story is really about (because you'll learn so much about yourself and what drives you, through your stories). I'll teach you my incredibly easy (and super secret) method and soon, you'll rock that job interview, excel at public speaking, feel more at ease on dates, learn to fully express yourself and yes, even stand onstage and deliver a standing-ovation worthy chapter from your life, if that's your goal. You'll find my story method valuable because once you learn how, you'll know the secret of telling a great story forever. #LifeSkills #NotJustBawdy
How to Be Fascinating Workshop in San Francisco
Date: Sunday, December 3rd (10 AM - 5 PM)
Register now at
https://tinyurl.com/HTBFWorkshopSFO
Not in San Francisco? Contact me and we can work together!
Email Dixie at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com
SUBSCRIBE: Want to be the first to know where Bawdy is headed to on our National Tour? I'm trying to bring Bawdy to YOUR city and Tickets will be released FIRST on the Bawdy newsletter.
Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list at
https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe
You'll be the first to see upcoming tour dates, get access to tickets, storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, fan meetups and special events. I've been shadowbanned on Social Media and having my accounts deleted is probably next. The only sure way we can connect if that happens is for you to sign up for Bawdy's email newsletter. Please ask your friends to sign up, too. Let's be Friends!
Patreon Special Offer:
All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some Entertainment for this long Holiday weekend? Right now, I have an End of Year Special Offer: 40+ Hours of Bawdy! Sign up (or Increase your support) for Bawdy's Patreon and you get: • 16 Full Livestreams
- Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, ReidAboutSex and many more
• Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites
- You'll be helping Dixie fulfill her Bawdy Storytelling Tour Dreams
• Available at the $25/month or greater level at:
Bawdy still exists, Thanks to our Patreon supporters!
Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude)
Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues?
Donate at:
Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling
Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling
Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com
BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy
And your Airline Miles will help immensely with this upcoming Tour, too. By the way: THANK YOU for considering it.
PRIVATE COACHING with Dixie: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I'm offering personal branding (your dating profile, website, etc), Storycoaching a nervous new keynote speaker, and I help develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, and write their books - because storytelling is everywhere you wanna be. I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicate with clarity, help you land your dream job, and discover your own story … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen.
My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at
https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe
Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise
Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/
Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible!
Team Bawdy is:
Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith
Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James
Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney
Bawdy's Creator & Podcast Host is Dixie De La Tour
& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective!
Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe