The Intense Mind with Imi Lo Tired of Toxic Positivity? A Philosophical Discussion Defending Dark Moods- Dr. Marianna Alessandri, Imi Lo (SPECIAL EPISODE)
Summary: https://eggshelltherapy.com/podcast-blog/2025/02/27/darkmoods/
This episode stands out as one of my most special conversations! In this thought-provoking episode, I sat down with Dr. Mariana Alessandri, a modern philosophy professor whose work inspired me. We specifically explored the often misunderstood and undervalued role of "dark moods"—emotions like sadness, anger, anxiety, grief, and depression. In our conversation, we challenged the cultural obsession with happiness and optimism, critiquing "toxic positivity" and the societal tendency to label these emotions as problems to be fixed. Drawing on insights from her book, The Defender of Dark Moods, Dr. Alessandri reframed, rigorously and passionately, that dark moods as meaningful, natural, and even valuable aspects of the human experience.
Our conversation also examined the harm caused by suppressing emotions, the limitations of modern self-help, Stoicism, and the liberating potential of existential philosophy. By reclaiming space for authentic emotional expression—without judgment or shame—we can move toward a richer, more authentic life.
What we discussed:
How society undervalues dark moods like sadness, anger, and anxiety
Why toxic positivity is harmful
Why the binary view of emotions as “positive” or “negative” is limiting
Why modern self-help version of Stoicism can be problematic
Why we need more nuanced language for emotions
Why dark moods are essential to a meaningful life
About Dr. Alessandri:
Website: https://www.marianaalessandri.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/mariana.alessandri/
The book: https://press.princeton.edu/books/hardcover/9780691215457/night-vision
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