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‘How can you rebuild when your father is the worst sexual predator in decades?’: Pelicot’s daughter speaks; and Philippa Perry on the deceptive ‘spark’

Jan 11, 2025
Caroline Darian shares her harrowing experience as the daughter of Dominique Pelicot, a notorious sexual predator. She discusses the dual trauma of being both a victim’s child and the offspring of a perpetrator, revealing her journey from victim to advocate. Philippa Perry, a psychotherapist, emphasizes the need to seek stable relationships rather than be drawn to unhealthy dynamics. Their conversation highlights the emotional toll of trauma and the importance of societal change in supporting abuse survivors.
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  • Caroline Darian's journey illustrates the profound emotional burden faced by children of both victims and perpetrators in cases of sexual violence.
  • Philippa Perry emphasizes the importance of prioritizing stability and decency in relationships to foster healing from trauma.

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The Burden of Betrayal

Caroline Dorian faces the harrowing duality of being the child of a sexual predator and a victim herself. Her father, Dominique Pellico, was recently sentenced for shocking atrocities, including drugging her mother, Giselle, and enabling her sexual assault by numerous men. The trauma of learning these truths shattered Caroline's perception of her family life, turning treasured memories into painful reminders. She describes her feelings as a 'field of ruins,' reflecting the emotional devastation wrought upon her identity and family dynamics.

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