Shameless Sex #210 Strap-On Sex 101 - with Rain DeGrey
Feb 8, 2021
In this lively discussion, Rain DeGrey, an international sex educator and performer known for her expertise in kink, dives deep into strap-on play. She clarifies misconceptions surrounding gender and pleasure, and offers insights on the dynamics between givers and receivers. Rain also shares practical advice on gear, safety, and communication to create a shame-free experience. With her playful approach, she expands the conversation to orgasmic experiences and recommends ways to enhance pleasure for all involved.
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Talk Openly And Make It Playful
- When telling a partner about shifting from men's thongs to feminine lingerie, be direct and framed as an expansion of an existing preference.
- Ask permission for playful exploration and propose options like trying it solo, being witnessed, or doing a striptease to keep it fun.
A Comic Sparked A Career
- Rain DeGrey recounts discovering strap-on play via erotic comics in her teens which shaped her lifelong interest.
- That early curiosity led her to become a sex educator focused on pleasure and shame reduction.
Bodies Share Pleasure Structures
- The clitoris and penis share similar embryonic tissue and internal structures, making varied penetration pleasurable for many bodies.
- Rain DeGrey argues that internal pleasure (anal or P-spot) is natural and not indicative of sexual orientation or weakness.
