Even Here, Even Now: A Needy Podcast with Mara Glatzel Exploring Right Relationship With James-Olivia Chu Hillman
May 19, 2020
James-Olivia Chu Hillman, a Relational Life & Leadership Coach, dives deep into the art of building joyful connections and navigating emotional responsibilities in relationships. They explore how to shift from codependency to self-centeredness, emphasizing the importance of voicing your needs and desires. With a touch of humor, they use a potty training analogy to illustrate stages of self-awareness. Listeners are encouraged to embrace honest communication and reflect on their personal growth to foster healthier dynamics.
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Defining Relationship
- We are always in relationship with everything, including ourselves, others, and the world.
- Our relational patterns remain consistent, regardless of specific roles or power dynamics.
Defining Right Relationship
- Right relationship isn't about one right way, but about justness and sustainability.
- Consider everyone within the relational ecosystem, ensuring regard for all involved.
Responsibility for vs. to Feelings
- Taking responsibility for others' feelings implies they lack sovereignty.
- It's an arrogant assumption that our actions dictate their entire experience.