

Where Did TJ Go? Navigating Grief and Loss with Tatum Green and David Thomas- Episode 959
10 snips Feb 17, 2025
Tatum Green, sister of Annie F. Downs, shares her heart-wrenching journey of grief after losing her infant son, TJ. Joined by David Thomas, a counselor from Daystar Counseling, they delve into the complexities of navigating loss, joy, and hope. They discuss their new book 'Where Did TJ Go?', designed to help families talk about grief, especially with children. The duo emphasizes the importance of support systems, emotional presence, and open conversations, making sense of sorrow while fostering resilience and understanding in the face of loss.
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TJ's Tenacity
- Annie encouraged TJ to stay alive for an upcoming family barbecue.
- TJ miraculously held on until the family gathering, showcasing his fighting spirit.
Following Children's Lead
- Follow children's leads when discussing difficult topics.
- Children possess an internal barometer for asking questions they are ready to have answered.
Grieving With, Not On
- Adults should grieve with children but not burden them with their emotions.
- Process intense emotions separately to be present for children's sadness.