Christian Podcast for Men | Real Men Connect 6 Dirty Words All Men Should Avoid (EP:1021)
Dec 17, 2025
Chad Harris, the lead pastor of The Crossing Church in Chattanooga, shares his insights on the power of words. He explores 'dirty words' that harm communication, such as judgment, gossip, and sarcasm, emphasizing their impact on relationships. Chad contrasts complaining with lamenting and offers practical advice for giving and receiving criticism. He also reflects on his journey as a pastor's child and the importance of intentional family time. Listeners are encouraged to cultivate positive speech and recognize the significance of their words.
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Words Create Your World
- Words shape the worlds we live in because humans are made in God's image and create with speech.
- Controlling your tongue aligns your life and home with God's purposes rather than cultural negativity.
Avoid Six Harmful Speech Patterns
- Avoid six categories of 'dirty words': judgmental, critical, sarcastic, gossip, complaining, and negative speech.
- Replace them intentionally with encouraging, truthful, and faith-filled words to shape healthier relationships.
Judgment Versus Discernment
- Biblical judgment differs from worldly judgment: you can't set someone's value or motives.
- Discernment inspects fruit and behavior without claiming final authority over another person's heart.