Design Matters with Debbie Millman Jennifer Pastiloff
Jul 7, 2025
Jennifer Pastiloff, bestselling author of 'On Being Human' and 'Proof of Life', leads transformative workshops that blend writing, yoga, and radical honesty. In her engaging discussion, she opens up about turning pain into purpose, emphasizing the power of vulnerability. Pastiloff reflects on her personal journey through trauma, identity, and self-discovery, illuminating how embracing imperfections can foster deeper connections. She highlights the importance of authenticity in living a fulfilling life, encouraging others to redefine their narratives.
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Early Acting Role Foreshadowing
- Jennifer Pastiloff described her early acting role where a deaf girl was mocked, which was ironic given her own hearing loss.
- This moment foreshadowed her later struggles and acceptance of her deafness.
Childhood Guilt After Father's Death
- Jennifer's last words to her dying father were "I hate you," which caused deep guilt that shaped her early life.
- This experience fueled her need for control and self-blame, believing everything was her fault.
Finding Compassion for Mother
- Jennifer developed compassion for her mother despite her tough upbringing and aloofness.
- Understanding her mother's abuse history helped her reframe their relationship with empathy.
