A Therapist Can't Say That Ep 14 - Growing Into the Light: In Memory of David Schnarch
Oct 11, 2022
The podcast pays heartfelt tribute to a pivotal teacher and mentor, reflecting on his profound presence and lasting influence. Personal stories reveal how initial encounters with his work ignited a journey toward self-acceptance and growth. Listeners explore themes of trauma, sexuality, and the interconnectedness of relationships. The speaker shares transformative insights, emphasizing the enduring impact of mentorship on personal development. It's an emotional exploration of legacy and the complexities of navigating grief.
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Journey to Learn from Schnarch
- Riva Stoudt flew 5,000 miles to Germany for a David Schnarch training before even reading the prerequisite book.
- She read the book on the plane while reflecting on her personal struggles with fertility treatment.
Sexual Fantasies Reveal Trauma
- David Schnarch theorized sexual fantasies reveal deeply embedded mental constructs of others' minds.
- These fantasies allow understanding and renegotiation of interpersonal trauma.
Masturbation Fantasy Shared Publicly
- At the Denver training, Riva anonymously shared her masturbation fantasy for public analysis by Schnarch.
- The experience evoked terror, shame, and ultimately relief from feeling profoundly seen by her teacher.
