1000 Days Sober Podcast

You Don’t Lack Willpower—You Lack Permission

Jul 2, 2025
Struggling with addiction? It might not be about willpower but understanding your inner resistance. The host shares a personal story of quitting smoking effortlessly by embracing his true self. Instead of battling with shame, he encourages listeners to listen to their resistance. Discover the importance of self-acceptance and how leading from within can free you from the chains of addiction. Relapse doesn’t mean failure; it's an opportunity to learn and grow.
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ANECDOTE

Freedom Without Willpower

  • Lee Davy struggled quitting smoking for years despite trying hard and feeling ashamed.
  • After his wife told him she was pregnant, Self showed up and gave permission to quit without craving for 25 years.
INSIGHT

Resistance Is Your Real Enemy

  • You think you're fighting alcohol, but you're actually battling resistance within yourself.
  • Fighting this internal resistance only strengthens it, keeping you stuck.
INSIGHT

Listen to Resistance, Don't Fight It

  • Resistance isn't a problem to overcome but a protection mechanism to understand.
  • Yelling at your resistance parts only strengthens them; listening calms and guides.
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