103. Dating Takes Effort : Have Confidence, Shoot Your Shot & Repeat

Have you ever been rejected after shooting your shot with someone you’re attracted to? Have you been left on read or got no reply when asking someone out? Have there been moments you question if there is something wrong with you because you can’t seem to find someone consistent?

Dating is like any area of our life, it takes time and effort in order to see any amount of progress. I can promise you one thing, there is nothing wrong with you it’s all just a numbers game. Don’t let rejection or not being able to find someone hold you back, if anything, let it fuel the fire within you to keep throwing yourself out there.

Four Reminders for The Dating Playbook

• Step 1 : There is no progress without effort so we must be willing to put in the reps in order to see any amount of progress. Mr or Mrs Wonderful won’t just come knocking on our door, we need to put ourselves in a position to meet them.
• Step 2 : It’s a numbers game, keep shooting your shot until something clicks. It doesn’t matter how many shots you’ve taken, just keep shooting.
• Step 3 : Rejection is inevitable. Use that energy to push you forward instead of it holding you back because at some point we will get the “yes”.
• Step 4 : Keep your head held high no matter how things play out because you at least trying is a massive step in the right direction in of itself.

 

Challenge for the listeners

How do you feel about your dating life today? Are you happy? Is it nonexistent? Do you feel like nothing is “clicking”? Think about the four steps in todays dating playbook and ask yourself which ones you need to incorporate more into your life. Start today and reassess the progress in the weeks to come.

Questions from The BMC

• Alyssa : How can a girl tell a guy to put her in the friend zone?
• Aaron : What are the pros / cons of dating apps?

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