356: Sabbath Practice — Friendship w/ Derrick James Rohr III
Sep 7, 2023
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Derrick James Rohr III, best friend and ministry partner, discusses the practice of friendship as a spiritual journey. They reflect on their own experiences, the evolution of their friendship, the impact of electronic communication, and the importance of shared experiences. They also touch on famous duos in history and face a Chiefs season opener disagreement.
Friendship should be valued alongside romantic relationships, as it requires hard work, discipline, and provides mutual support and spiritual growth.
Creating deeper friendships can be facilitated by asking for help or offering assistance, as acts of service foster a sense of obligation and lead to stronger connections.
Deep dives
The Importance of Maintaining Friendships
Maintaining friendships requires hard work and discipline, and it should be valued alongside romantic relationships. Friendship allows for mutual support, deep conversations, and the opportunity to grow together spiritually. Friendships should not be overshadowed by the emphasis on romantic partnerships.
Making Friends through Acts of Service
A practical way to make friends is by asking for help or offering to help others. Putting oneself in debt to someone else fosters a sense of obligation and can lead to deeper friendships. Acts of service can range from simple favors to working together on shared tasks or projects.
Shared Experiences as Building Blocks of Friendship
Shared experiences, such as watching sports games or movies together, can help strengthen friendships. These common activities create opportunities for deeper connections and conversations. Joyful or challenging experiences shared with friends can enhance the bond between individuals.
Friendship in the Digital Age and the Need for In-Person Connections
While digital connections can be valuable, maintaining in-person friendships is crucial. The physical presence of friends allows for a deeper understanding of one another and a greater level of empathy. In-person experiences, such as grieving together or celebrating joyful moments, contribute to the growth and sustainability of friendships.