Ethical Seduction

Ethical Seduction #058 - Five Flirting Styles: Which is yours?

Mar 28, 2022

Jeffrey Hall, an author and expert on flirting, discusses his framework for understanding the five flirting styles. He dives into how these styles impact relationships and self-awareness. The conversation critiques traditional dating norms, exploring the implications of societal expectations on flirting behaviors. Listeners learn about the strengths and weaknesses of different styles, the role of polite flirting, and the significance of sincere communication in building deeper connections. It’s a thought-provoking exploration of attraction and interaction!

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Understanding the five flirting styles enhances self-awareness and improves communication in social interactions and relationships.

The discussion critiques the heteronormative assumptions of flirting styles while emphasizing the importance of adapting these styles in modern dating.

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Understanding Flirting Styles

Different flirting styles play a significant role in how individuals connect and communicate their interests. The discussion highlights five primary flirting styles: physical, playful, polite, traditional, and sincere, each characterized by distinct approaches to interaction. Knowing and identifying one's own flirting style can enhance self-awareness and improve social interactions. Understanding these styles also provides insights into how others may approach flirting, which can facilitate better communication and connection.

Intro

3min

Exploring the Five Flirting Styles and Their Implications

5min

Flirting Styles Unpacked

11min

The Art of Polite Flirting

7min

Exploring Traditional Flirting Dynamics

11min

Exploring Flirting Styles in Community Contexts

6min

We review the book called “The Five Flirting Styles: Use the Science of Flirting to Attract the Love You Really Want” by Author Jeffrey Hall. The author has created labels and a framework for better understanding flirting styles, which is bound to help listeners better understand themselves and those they interact with. However the podcasters also question the accuracy and hetronormitized assumptions presented in the book. While the five flirting styles presented are worth learning, so is the discussion based around the book's findings.

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References:

Book: The Five Flirting Styles: Use the Science of Flirting to Attract the Love You Really Want

Author: Jeffrey A. Hall

Amazon Link: https://www.amazon.com/Five-Flirting-Styles-Science-Attract/dp/037389273X

Article: 5 Flirting Styles: What Type of Flirt are You?

Author: WebMD, Katrina Woznicki

Link: https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20101101/5-flirting-styles-what-type-of-flirt-are-you

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