The Dad Edge Podcast

Why Being a 'Nice Guy' Might Be Hurting You!

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Jun 20, 2025
Exploring the pitfalls of being tagged a 'nice guy,' this discussion reveals how seeking approval can harm attraction in relationships. It emphasizes the importance of emotional stability and genuine connection over playing it safe. The conversation dives into embracing masculine energy, highlighting assertiveness in initiating date nights and enhancing communication. Listeners discover the critical difference between pleasing and pursuing, learning to cultivate a magnetic presence that fosters partnerships built on trust and equality.
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ANECDOTE

Larry's Nice Guy Recovery Story

  • Larry Hagner shares his experience as a recovering "nice guy" seeking validation in marriage.
  • He highlights the insecurity hidden behind the need for approval and validation in relationships.
INSIGHT

Insecurity Breeds Unsafety

  • Insecurity in men creates emotional unsafety for women, which kills attraction.
  • Women need their men to be calm, steady, and emotionally safe anchors in the relationship.
ANECDOTE

Childhood Impact on Marriage

  • Larry recalls his chaotic childhood without a stable father figure, leading to anxiety about emotional safety.
  • This childhood experience made him constantly seek steadiness and reassurance in his marriage.
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