Psychology In Seattle Podcast Leaving Abuse (2017 Rerun)
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May 20, 2025 The discussion delves into the emotional struggles faced by individuals in abusive relationships, highlighting the conflicting feelings of love versus self-preservation. It explores the unique challenges therapists encounter, including counter-transference and how it impacts client support. The complexities of navigating the therapeutic relationship are emphasized, showcasing the vital need for compassion in healing. Additionally, the conversation stresses the importance of self-esteem and support systems when leaving abusive situations, offering hope and resources for recovery.
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Leaving Abuse Is Complex and Dangerous
- Leaving an abusive relationship is incredibly difficult and dangerous, not just a simple choice.
- Risks include physical harm, threats, financial ruin, and emotional trauma which complicate the decision to leave.
Therapists Must Support Ambivalence
- Therapists should sit with clients' ambivalence without frustration or judgment.
- They must provide a supportive space to help clients process fears and uncertainties about leaving abusive situations.
Therapist Counter-transference Challenges
- Therapists often experience counter-transference frustration with clients in abusive relationships.
- This can lead to unhelpful commands to "just leave," which worsen clients' feelings of worthlessness.