Ridiculous History Victorians Got Super Weird With Flirting, Part One: "Fan Fiction"
Feb 4, 2025
Dive into the quirky world of Victorian flirting, where rigid social norms turned romance into a game of secrecy and subtlety! Explore the whimsical use of fans as communication tools, translating gestures into forbidden messages. Discover unique methods like postage stamp placement and flower symbolism, allowing lovers to express feelings discreetly. The discussion contrasts Victorian customs with modern dating dynamics, highlighting the absurdity of love across time. Get ready for a fascinating journey through the playful intricacies of courtship!
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Modern Day Flirting
- Ben and Noel realized they had been flirting with each other through frequent, supportive texts.
- This realization mirrors the podcast's theme of Victorian-era coded flirtation.
The Purpose of Flirting
- Flirting is a natural solution to choosing the right mate, present across species.
- It involves assessing genetic compatibility, parenting potential, and social fit.
Birds vs. Humans
- Birds exhibit a rigid hierarchy in their courtship rituals, only flirting within their species.
- This contrasts with humans, whose flirtation is more complex due to societal factors.
