Round Table China The problem with people pleasing
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Apr 22, 2025 Ever felt forced to agree to something just to keep the peace? The discussion dives deep into the people-pleasing trap, revealing the emotional costs and cultural influences behind this behavior. Participants share personal experiences, balancing the urge to accommodate others with the need for self-respect. Vulnerability emerges as a key to authentic relationships, while practical tips on setting boundaries are shared. The conversation wraps up with a celebration of the film 'Se7en,' exploring its dark themes and cultural significance.
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Why People Please Others
- People pleasers say yes to gain approval rather than from genuine desire to help.
- They often apologize or take blame unnecessarily to avoid conflict or disappointing others.
People Pleasers Shape Self-Worth
- People pleasers often adjust their personality based on who they are with to gain acceptance.
- Their self-worth depends more on others' perceptions than their own self-view.
Origins of People Pleasing
- People pleasing may stem from childhood where love was conditional upon obedience and success.
- This creates a link between external validation and one's sense of worth.