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Dr. Gena Gorlin — How to Build a Builder (EP.236)

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Oct 3, 2024
Dr. Gena Gorlin, a clinical associate professor at the University of Texas at Austin and the mind behind the Building the Builder Substack, explores the unique psychological needs of ultra-ambitious individuals. She discusses the concept of the 'Builder Mindset' and how it empowers growth in a chaotic world. Gena delves into the dangers of perfectionism, the importance of personal agency, and the role of persistence in success. She challenges listeners to embrace courage, self-motivation, and innovative thinking as essential tools for personal and professional fulfillment.
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Ambitious Builders' Needs

  • Ambitious builders have unique psychological needs arising from their challenging endeavors.
  • These needs often go unaddressed in traditional mental health, which focuses on floor-raising rather than ceiling-raising.
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Building is Not Default

  • Building and creating requires continuous effort and cultivation, it's not a default human state.
  • Ideology and culture play a significant role in nurturing or hindering the builder mindset.
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Drill Sergeant vs. Zen Master

  • People seek guidance, but default models like the "Drill Sergeant" (authoritarian standards) and "Zen Master" (passive acceptance) are insufficient.
  • True guidance comes from recognizing your own life as the standard, aligning your pursuits with your values and goals.
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