If someone hurt you, disappointed you, or failed to show up the way you needed—this episode will change how you see it. Jillian shares the truth that transformed her life: people can only meet you where they are, not where you wish they could be. Learn how to stop internalizing others’ limitations, let go of unrealistic expectations, and finally feel the emotional freedom that comes from not taking things so personally.

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