Abdullah Oduro Why Muslim Men FEAR Marriage Today - And How To Fix It
Jul 5, 2025
This discussion dives into the reasons behind many Muslim men's fears of marriage today. It highlights marriage as a sacred bond essential for family formation while emphasizing the love that grows through effort and kindness. The legal challenges men face in divorce, from custody battles to high costs, are explored. There’s a critique of modern feminist influences on marriage roles, alongside a call for balancing masculinity with respect. Practical advice is offered on preparations for marriage, including seeking mentors and utilizing Islamic contracts.
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Marriage As The Sole Legitimate Union
- Islam defines procreation and honorable male-female relationships as occurring only within marriage.
- Marriage is both social (building nations) and intimate (love and mercy earned through kindness).
Systemic Risks Make Men Hesitant
- Modern legal and social systems often disadvantage men in divorce and custody matters.
- Abdullah links this structural reality to why many Muslim men fear marriage today.
Respond To False Accusations With Integrity
- If falsely accused, maintain taqwa, trust Allah, and avoid tit-for-tat retaliation.
- Seek legal protection but keep moral integrity and pray for forgiveness for the accuser when possible.