Healing Conversations for Men Who Have Sex with Men We Have to Love Our Survival with Matt Sharp
Matt Sharp has been a long term advocate in the field of HIV over the years and has become a nationally prominent voice speaking up for the issues that face people with HIV. Matt joins the show to discuss what has changed since the early days of the HIV epidemic, including both the positive changes and the challenges we still face. He also discusses his work with The Reunion Project, and how a town hall type meeting now is branching out to other affected areas in the nation serving the community as a method of support and education.
TAKEAWAYS:
[1:19] Matt himself is a long-term HIV survivor and an independent HIV educator, advocate, and advocacy consultant. As a community activist, it is his job to involve himself not only with issues that directly affect him, but within his community at large. What began as work in treatment activism turned into discussing the science and research of treating HIV, along with the mental health components of those affected.
[5:00] Dealing with HIV and educating those in the community is a 24/7 job and one where we must step in, mobilize and act. Much like a battle, it is impossible to fight alone.
[8:22] Technology can be a strength and a barrier. We can use it to understand more data and research than ever before, along with connecting us with more support. However, it cannot take the place of actual deep human connection.
[9:41] When we bridge our divides we become stronger.
[14:15] Matt discusses the trauma and isolation that long time survivors face. Many of these survivors are now dealing with aging issues that can make them depressed, or even suicidal.
[15:04] Matt talks about the movement they started in San Francisco, where they called a Town Hall meeting to really listen to people from all backgrounds and walks of life. They saw this as a gift to the community, and wanted to mobilize and grow into the awareness project it is today.
[16:57] The Reunion Project identifies cities that may need help around projects on HIV and aging, and help the designated committee put together the town hall. This event boosts social interaction, community awareness and serves as an educational workshop.
[23:34] When there are multiple generations involved, a meeting of the minds often ends up in arguments and pointing fingers. Matt and David remind us that when we strive to be positive and go towards the love, we can move in the direction of the future, and healing.
RESOURCES:
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QUOTES:
● “I don’t relate to issues of youth, but I have to be aware of them.”
● “Clients often feel invisible and forgotten. To have someone acknowledge their experience is really huge.”
● “We still have people dying, and people that are very sick. I don’t think there is a realization that this is really happening.”
● “We have to learn how to shift our focus on positive rather than negative.”
● “When we focus on love, we move towards the future.”