#183 Pastoral questions on porn, personal tragedy and coming back to faith (Replay)
Aug 31, 2023
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Tom, a guest on the podcast, answers pastoral questions on topics such as guilt over porn addiction's connection to miscarriages, navigating personal tragedy, and finding a way back to faith. The tension between enjoying worldly pleasures and renunciation is explored, as well as the Old Testament's view on miscarriage and sin. A heart-wrenching story of a nephew's death prompts questions about renewed faith and a loving god. The episode discusses finding God in the midst of suffering and the importance of lament.
Enjoying the goodness of the world is not in conflict with one's faith, as the world is God's creation and we should interpret biblical commands in the context of being open to God's calling.
Part of the vocation of God's people is to hold onto the pain of the world in the presence of God, even when there are no immediate answers or resolutions, and seek support from wise local pastors.
Deep dives
The tension between enjoying worldly pleasures and loving the world
The podcast episode delves into the tension between enjoying innocent worldly pleasures and the biblical admonition not to love the world or anything in it. The host discusses a listener's question about whether indulging in activities such as hiking, seaside holidays, and watching films contradicts the biblical teachings to hate our lives and not love the world. The host suggests that while strict commands about hating one's life may be present, it is important to interpret them in the context of being open to God's calling and being prepared to give up things if necessary. Ultimately, the podcast emphasizes that the world is God's creation and that enjoying the goodness of this world is not in conflict with one's faith.
Grieving and finding solace in the midst of tragedy
The episode addresses a listener who is grappling with the question of where God is in the face of deep tragedy, specifically the sudden death of their 18-year-old nephew. The listener shares their family's heartbreaking experiences, including the loss of a mother to cancer and now their nephew's death. The host acknowledges the pain and sorrow, drawing upon the biblical tradition of lament. They suggest that part of the vocation of God's people is to hold onto the pain of the world in the presence of God, even when there are no immediate answers or resolutions. The host encourages the listener to share their heartache with a wise local pastor who can offer support, guidance, and prayers.
Becoming transformed by the Spirit and practical steps
The podcast explores the question of why Christians are not always perceived as more loving than others, despite the expectation for believers to be transformed by the Spirit and exhibit love as their natural reaction. The episode advises the listener to engage in spiritual practices such as Bible reading, prayer, participation in sacraments, and ministry to the poor. The host also highlights the importance of seeking guidance from a pastor or spiritual director who can offer support and challenge individuals to grow in their faith and love. Additionally, the host acknowledges that some Christians unfortunately depict a negative image of Christianity, but highlights the many instances where Christians demonstrate love and compassion in their communities.
From March 2020: Tom answers listener’s pastoral questions including a man racked by guilt over whether his wife’s miscarriages were a judgment on his porn addiction, a family wrestling with the death of a family member, and someone on a journey back to faith but unsure where to begin.
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