Stop Talking About the Weather: Better Ways to Open Client Meetings
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Nov 5, 2025
Discover the art of making impactful first impressions in client meetings. Learn why skipping small talk, especially about the weather, can strengthen your rapport. James shares tips on using body language effectively and how to deliver engaging open-ended questions. Understand the importance of showing genuine care before showcasing expertise. He emphasizes the need for a clear agenda that fosters trust while keeping the conversation personal. Transform those awkward first moments into lasting connections with practical strategies.
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Toastmasters Taught First-Second Cues
James recounts Toastmasters table topics where posture and movement signaled confidence before a word was spoken.
He realized audience perception forms from nonverbal cues, which shape how the spoken message is received.
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Use Body Language To Convey Confidence
Show up physically engaged: smile, lean forward, use hand gestures, and maintain open posture to signal interest and confidence.
Use your body to influence your emotions so you actually feel more present and authoritative in meetings.
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Ditch Weather; Ask Open-Ended Starters
Avoid defaulting to weather small talk because it boxes you into generic Zoom habits and dead-ends the conversation.
Start with open-ended, softball questions like "How's your day going?" to gauge willingness to engage deeper.
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This episode of Root Ready dives into the art of first impressions: why small talk isn’t small and how skipping the weather talk might be the smartest move you make. Whether you’re a new advisor or a seasoned planner, this conversation unpacks how to show confidence, warmth, and leadership from the moment a meeting starts.
James shares practical strategies for opening virtual meetings in a way that builds genuine rapport and trust without sounding scripted. From the psychology of posture and tone to the power of open-ended questions and clear agendas, you’ll learn how to turn the “awkward first minute” into a connection that lasts.
Because clients don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care and that starts long before you talk about money.
Listen to this episode to learn how to show up with presence, lead with purpose, and build relationships that feel real from the very first hello.
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